<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8' standalone='yes'?><rss version='2.0'><channel><title>My Blog Feed</title><link>http://www.tblog.com/</link><description>A tBlog Blog!</description><lastBuildDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2007 21:39:03 -0700</lastBuildDate><language>en-us</language><item><title><![CDATA[Happy New Year]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969933475</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969933475</guid><pubDate>Sun, 31 Dec 2006 16:15:31 -0800</pubDate><description><![CDATA[It's 2007 already?  Wow how time flies and things change.  Is it time to sit down and set our goals for the new year?  For me, no.  I think it's always important to sit down and establish goals and ex... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969933475'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[So we have all of these girls names picked out]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969925370</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969925370</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 05:50:48 -0800</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Ashlyn, Brooklyn, Jocelyn, Chloe and a few more.  We were set on having a girl.  I was leaning toward Brooklyn.  Yesterday, we found out we would be having another ... boy.  At first, a bit of a let d... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969925370'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Birth of a new week]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969920871</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969920871</guid><pubDate>Mon, 09 Oct 2006 07:40:51 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[It's Monday and the chance to set new goals and make the most of your day, your week, your life!  Perhaps the past hasn't met your expectations.  What is it you can do to make life better?  Do you nee... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969920871'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Life since her return]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969918296</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969918296</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Sep 2006 20:33:45 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[On Father's Day she returned home.  A huge mix of emotions as life 'alone' was beginning to take shape.  Elated one moment and extremely frightened the next.  I still sometime wonder if her return is ... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969918296'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Blogging for just more than a year]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969907244</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969907244</guid><pubDate>Mon, 24 Jul 2006 06:24:52 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[I've taken about a month off from my blog.&nbsp; I'm still here and life has improved.&nbsp; On Father's Day, June 18th, I returned from vacation to something quite unexpected.&nbsp; Prior to leavi... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969907244'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[It's now 4:30 am]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969900351</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969900351</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 Jun 2006 00:19:39 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Woke up and can't go back to sleep.  Hate these nights/early mornings when I can't 'turn off my thinker.'  Nothing I really want to share.  Vacation will be ending soon and I need another week or two ... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969900351'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Always on my mind]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969900168</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969900168</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Jun 2006 03:37:58 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Why is the grieving process so difficult?  You read about people who live in it for years, others who never complete the process and are bitter for the remainder of their life.  Others will say "Look ... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969900168'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[A hint of hope]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969898976</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969898976</guid><pubDate>Mon, 12 Jun 2006 19:04:10 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Tonight we had dinner.  I'd still do anything to get her back in my life, I love her.
Last week, her lawyer asked her for an additional $1000 as her original $2k retainer has been depleted.... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969898976'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Divorce Care]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969897669</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969897669</guid><pubDate>Wed, 07 Jun 2006 20:01:14 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Today, I attended week 2/13 of DivorceCare through a local church.  For the most part, I know what to expect from the whole divorce process but it helps to discuss it with others and see how they've o... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969897669'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[our anniversary]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969896793</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969896793</guid><pubDate>Mon, 05 Jun 2006 05:00:08 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[This weekend has been pretty tough.  I've thought a lot about all the emotions and excitement of life 7 years ago.  Today, we have been married for 7 years.  6.5.99 was one of the best days of my life... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969896793'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969894599</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969894599</guid><pubDate>Thu, 25 May 2006 11:35:44 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Today, I was looking for lyrics to a song I like.&nbsp; It's hip hop and I'm not too fond of the lyrics but I love the beat.&nbsp; Anyhow, while 'Google'ing for the lyrics &quot;why you wanna go an... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969894599'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[where are we now]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969893623</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969893623</guid><pubDate>Mon, 22 May 2006 04:07:02 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Charlin moved out the weekend of May 13th.  Our first court hearing was the 17th.  We now 'share' Kolin 50/50, he's never away from the other parent for more than 3 days.  We don't have/get to see one... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969893623'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[war against a loved one]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969891756</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969891756</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 May 2006 20:02:05 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[This weekend has been very hard.  I've been without Kolin and Charlin, only a brief, daily conversation by phone.  Both mean the world to me.  It's interesting how quickly you can go through the vario... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969891756'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Affected by the war in Iraq]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969890994</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969890994</guid><pubDate>Thu, 11 May 2006 08:26:56 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[How long will the war in Iraq continue?&nbsp; What are your feelings about the US being there without the support of other countries?&nbsp; At what point will we consider our presence there unworth... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969890994'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[What will tomorrow bring]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969890223</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969890223</guid><pubDate>Mon, 08 May 2006 20:22:51 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Support is necessary through these times.  Thankfully, I have friends and family who have continued to be there for me when needed.  I continue to pray and hope for the best but I will always have the... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969890223'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[She's asking for too much]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969887683</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969887683</guid><pubDate>Fri, 28 Apr 2006 06:34:37 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Love is blinding and I've done everything I can for her.  I hate that I continue to do little things for her this week.  It's time to be selfish.I've repeatedly asked her to consider going before 1... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969887683'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Today, I was served . . .]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969886989</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969886989</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Apr 2006 16:56:03 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[I knew yesterday I would be served with divorce papers today.  My stomach was in knots all day and i felt an illness like never before.  I have failed but I will get back up and move on, move up.It... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969886989'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[time for healing]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969886113</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969886113</guid><pubDate>Sat, 22 Apr 2006 16:47:45 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[It's going to be a difficult road ahead.  I've never faced the loss of a love one -- who stil blesses us with her presence her on Earth.  She loves someone else and I have to accept that.  I have to f... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969886113'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[i can't live like this]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969885734</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969885734</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Apr 2006 18:15:24 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[we, or i am trying to make this marriage work. she's in love with another man and we're both to blame.  at various times, i hold the burden on myself knowing that if i never took her off that pedestal... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969885734'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[We are family]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969884859</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969884859</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 07:00:40 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Hope all had a great weekend and a Happy Easter!  We had a lot of family time but it still doesn't meet my expectations.  There's more to being a family than just 'being there.'  A great friend recent... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969884859'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[WWJD?]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969883315</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969883315</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Apr 2006 06:26:55 -0700</pubDate><description><![CDATA[What would Jesus do? I continue to struggle to make things work. I think the pain is taking a toll on my health and I need some resolution soon. I continue to receive advice and read books, websites, ... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969883315'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[This chapter over?]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969880733</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969880733</guid><pubDate>Thu, 30 Mar 2006 06:40:50 -0800</pubDate><description><![CDATA[I believe my marriage is once again coming to an end.  My wife once again stated she was not happy and cannot continue as we have.  It's only been 3 months since she's returned and she continue to tal... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969880733'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[The emptiness within]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969879118</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969879118</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Mar 2006 06:24:04 -0800</pubDate><description><![CDATA[I'm feeling a great loss.  We are so caught up in financial woes and 'tomorrow' that we seemed to have lost sight of today.  I am in great fear of 'tomorrow.'  It's seems like it's only a matter of ti... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969879118'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Yesterday was 'eventful']]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969877847</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969877847</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2006 07:33:14 -0800</pubDate><description><![CDATA[The drama in my life is getting the best of me.  Yesterday, I registered with a temp service seeking a better career.  All the women in the office were quite surprised at my skills.  Not to brag but 9... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969877847'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Accomplishments...]]></title><link>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969876986</link><guid>http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969876986</guid><pubDate>Mon, 13 Mar 2006 09:44:11 -0800</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Another weekend of work.  We've been working on our house in preparation to sell.  I was able to clean the front lawn, hung new wallpaper in the master bathroom, carpets were cleaned and we got our co... <a href='http://1graham.tblog.com/post/1969876986'>more from 1graham...</a>]]></description></item></channel></rss>